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Walt Whitman
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Why Cary Grant was happy to be called gay
The English-born star held sway over the golden age of movies, from thrillers to comedies in such classics as North By Northwest and Notorious to His Girl Friday and An Affair To Remember.
Onscreen his lovers included some of the world’s most beautiful women – from Grace Kelly and Audrey Hepburn to Rosalind Russell and Sophia Loren.
Off screen, he was married five times. Yet away from the cameras Grant developed a very different reputation – as Hollywood gossip suggested he was secretly gay.
Now the actor’s only child, his daughter Jennifer Grant by his marriage to actress Dyan Cannon, has revealed that her father actively encouraged this rumour that he was privately homosexual because it helped him seduce his leading ladies.
“Dad somewhat enjoyed being called gay,” says actress Jennifer, 45, who has written the memoir Good Stuff: A Reminiscence Of My Father, Cary Grant, published in America on May 3.
“He said it made women want to prove the assertion wrong.”
And Grant did not flatly reject homosexual advances, she recalls.
“Can’t blame men for wanting him and wouldn’t be surprised if dad even mildly flirted back,” she writes. “When the question arises, it generally speaks more about the person asking.”
Grant died in 1986 at 82, having retired from movies 20 years earlier, but with his enduring cool élan and elegant sartorial savoir faire it is hardly surprising that he has become an icon to gay fans worldwide.
Yet it is hard to imagine that the handsome 6ft 2in Grant needed to pretend to be gay to conquer any woman he might choose.
Grant’s lovers are reputed to have also included dancer Ginger Rogers, King Kong’s infatuation Fay Wray and heiress Doris Duke, once the richest woman in America. His 1957 affair with Sophia Loren, 31 years his junior, was considered one of the most passionate romances of his life, and many friends expected them to wed.
Few remember that Thirties’ sex siren Mae West selected newcomer Grant to star opposite her in the 1933 movie She Done Him Wrong in which she delivers to Grant the immortal line: “Come up some time and see me.” His sexual virility was so commanding she invited him back later that year to co-star in I’m No Angel.
Audiences imagined it would take a man who was supremely confident of his heterosexuality to star in the 1949 comedy I Was A Male War Bride.
In the film Grant plays a French army captain who falls in love with a female US army lieutenant and finds that at the end of the Second World War he can only enter America under the War Bride Act, which ultimately leads him to dress up in drag.
But if Grant enjoyed flirting with a gay reputation behind closed doors, he was determined not to have it undermine his image as a heterosexual leading man on screen.
In public he mounted an often ferocious defence against the merest suggestion that he was gay. “I have nothing against gays,” he assured people in 1980. “I’m just not one myself.”
But that year he was outraged when comedian Chevy Chase, star of the National Lampoon’s Vacation film series, outed him on national TV.
“I understand he’s a homo,” Chase said on NBC’s Tomorrow show and added: “What a gal.” Grant fired off a $10million slander suit against Chase, which was settled out of court.
Jennifer Grant’s memoir sheds light on the sex life of an actor who chose not to write an autobiography.
“I will leave that to others,” Grant said five years before his death. “I’m sure they will turn me into a homosexual or a Nazi spy or something else.”
Perhaps Grant was prescient or simply knew the bawdy tales that were widespread behind the scenes in gay Hollywood. But since his demise, reports of Grant’s alleged homosexual liaisons have been gaining currency in Tinseltown’s gossipy circles.
When Grant first came to Hollywood, he shared a home with Noel Coward, the flamboyantly homosexual actor, singer, songwriter and playwright.
After he became a box office star he shared a house with fellow Hollywood leading man Randolph Scott who sometimes jokingly referred to himself as “Cary Grant’s wife”. Their friendship grew so close that studio chiefs insisted that Grant find a home of his own before gay gossip became headlines.
Friends also noted that Grant grew extremely close to maverick millionaire aviation tycoon and film producer Howard Hughes.
“The debate still rages over Grant’s sexual preference but he was clearly bisexual,” says celebrity biographer Darwin Porter, who catalogues the actor’s alleged gay liaisons in his salacious book Hollywood Babylon Strikes Again! co-authored with Danforth Prince.
“He had long-enduring affairs with both Randolph Scott and Howard Hughes.”
Grant was linked with former costar Marlene Dietrich but she insisted that there was no romance, reportedly telling her friends: “I had no feelings for him – he was a homosexual.”
And even Mae West, who had helped to establish his reputation as a virile leading man, reportedly said in private: “He never came up to see me, not even some time.”
According to Darwin Porter, Grant’s other gay lovers encompassed the biggest stars and most talented creative minds in Hollywood.
He allegedly bedded Marlon Brando and Gary Cooper, playwrights Clifford Odets and Moss Hart and the composer Cole Porter.
Grant was born Archibald Leach in Bristol, on January 18, 1904, the only child of Elsie and Elias, a garment factory presser. His family was “lower middle-class”, Grant recalled, and his mother deserted the family when he was still a boy.
She ended up in a mental institution.
He left home at 15 to join an acrobatic troupe, an adventure which took him to New York in 1920 where he moved on to appearing in vaudeville and then Broadway. He went to Hollywood for a screen test and with a name change, Cary Grant was born.
He made 72 movies, never won an Oscar, experimented with LSD and made millions.
But at the age of 62 Grant retired, deciding to devote more time to his family and only child Jennifer.
He had divorced Dyan Cannon when their daughter was only one but remained an attentive, loving parent who was determined to be a part of her life. He picked Jennifer up from school, read to her and saved every photo, scrap and souvenir that they shared in their 20 years together before he died.
“Dad home-schooled me in life, seven days a week,” she says, recalling growing up in the plush enclaves of Beverly Hills and Malibu, travelling the world with her famous father and playing board games with Princess Stephanie in Monaco.
“I had a crush on dad,” Jennifer admits. “OK, more than a little crush on dad.”
She also tries to debunk her father’s reputation as a cheapskate. “In my experience, dad was neither cheap nor excessive,” she writes. “Which for a wealthy man is remarkable.”
Yet she recalls that he refused to buy her expensive designer jeans after learning that cheaper denims came from the same manufacturing plant.
Whatever her father’s sexuality, Jennifer saw him indulge his heterosexual appetites in a series of romances and his final marriage to Barbara Harris. Even at 79 Grant longed to have another child, confessing: “I’m capable, sperm-wise.”
Perhaps living a double life came naturally to a man who transformed himself from a West Country school drop-out into an urbane mid-Atlantic sophisticate.
He confessed: “I have spent the greater part of my life fluctuating between Archie Leach and Cary Grant, unsure of each, suspecting each.” Perhaps he enjoyed the best of both worlds.
“If someone wants to say I’m gay, what can I do?” he once mused. “I think it’s probably said about every man who’s been known to do well with women. I don’t let that sort of thing bother me. What matters to me is that I know who I am.”
Thursday, October 20, 2016
F. Scott Fitzgerald
In A Moveable Feast, Hemingway claimed that Zelda taunted Fitzgerald over the size of his penis. After examining it in a public restroom, Hemingway told Fitzgerald "You're perfectly fine," assuring him that it was larger than those of statues at the Louvre. One of the most serious rifts occurred when Zelda told him that their sex life had declined because he was "a fairy" and was likely having a homosexual affair with Hemingway. There is no evidence that either was homosexual, but Fitzgerald nonetheless decided to have sex with a prostitute to prove his heterosexuality. Zelda found condoms that he had purchased before any encounter occurred, and a bitter fight ensued, resulting in lingering jealousy. She later threw herself down a flight of marble stairs at a party because Fitzgerald, engrossed in talking to Isadora Duncan, was ignoring her. In September 1924, Zelda overdosed on sleeping pills. The couple never spoke of the incident and refused to discuss whether it was a suicide attempt. The episode propelled Fitzgerald to write in his notebook, "That September 1924, I knew something had happened that could never be repaired." This breakdown of their relationship worsened Fitzgerald's alcoholism.
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In France, Fitzgerald became close friends with writer Ernest Hemingway. |
Bright young things
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Stephen Tennant, William Walton, Georgia Sitwell, Zita Jungman, Rex Whistler and Cecil Beaton at Wilsford, 1927 |
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Sir Harold Mario Mitchell Acton CBE (5 July 1904 – 27 February 1994) was a British writer, scholar, and dilettante. Acton was born at Villa La Pietra, near Florence, Italy. His father was a successful art collector and dealer, and his prominent Anglo-Italian family included the historian Lord Acton, and, more distantly, Sir John Acton, Commodore and prime minister of Naples under Ferdinand IV. |
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John Patrick Douglas Balfour, 3rd Baron Kinross (1904–1976) was a Scottish historian and writer noted for his biography of Mustafa Kemal Atatürk and other works on Islamic history. |
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Robert Byron (26 February 1905 – 24 February 1941) was a British travel writer, best known for his travelogue The Road to Oxiana. He was also a noted writer, art critic and historian. |
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The Honourable (Ralph) Edward Gathorne-Hardy (4 June 1901 – 18 June 1978) was a British Bohemian socialite.
The third son of Gathorne Gathorne-Hardy, 3rd Earl of Cranbrook by his wife Lady Dorothy Boyle, the daughter of David Boyle, 7th Earl of Glasgow, he was educated at Eton and Christ Church, Oxford. One of the group designated by the press the 'Bright Young People' in the 1920s, he shared a flat at 39 Maddox Street in London with Brian Howard, which was so run-down that fungus grew on the dilapidated staircase. Although he was a respected antiquarian, specialising in 18th century literature, and worked for the booksellers Elkin Mathews, he remained impecunious, largely living off his elder brother, Lord Cranbrook. He also worked at various colleges and for the British Council After 1935, he lived in Athens, Cairo and Lebanon, returning to England in the late 1960s in poor health. He died aged 77 on 18 June 1978.
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Brian Christian de Claiborne Howard (13 March 1905 – 15 January 1958) was an English poet and later a writer for the New Statesman. |
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Arthur Tilden Jeffress (born 1905, Brentford, Middlesex; died 1961) was colorful and influential gallery owner, collector, and patron of the arts in post war Britain.[1] In the pre-war years he was one of Britain's Bright Young Things. He died in 1961 and left his art collection to the Tate and Southampton City Art Gallery. |
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Oliver Hilary Sambourne Messel (13 January 1904 – 13 July 1978) was an English artist and one of the foremost stage designers of the 20th century. |
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Sir Francis Osbert Sacheverell Sitwell, 5th Baronet (6 December 1892 – 4 May 1969) was an English writer. His elder sister was Edith Sitwell and his younger brother was Sacheverell Sitwell; Just like his siblings, he devoted his life to art and literature. |
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Stephen James Napier Tennant (21 April 1906 – 28 February 1987) was a British socialite known for his decadent lifestyle. He was called "the brightest" of the "Bright Young People". |
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Reginald John "Rex" Whistler (24 June 1905 – 18 July 1944) was a British artist, designer and illustrator. |
Denham Fouts
Denham Fouts (9 May 1914 – 16 December 1948) was an American male prostitute, socialite and literary muse. He served as the inspiration for characters by Truman Capote, Gore Vidal, Christopher Isherwood and Gavin Lambert. The son of Edwin Fouts and Mary E. Denham (1890-1970). Denham Fouts has been referenced in literary works by Christopher Isherwood, Truman Capote, and Gore Vidal. He was also a friend of George Platt Lynes, who photographed him. Isherwood described him as a mythic figure, "the most expensive male prostitute in the world." Fouts died in 1948, at the Pensione Foggetti, in Rome, at the age of 35. Interment details from the American Foreign Service from "Report of the Death of an American Citizen." The following information was provided by Vero DiSpirito: "Fouts died... of a 'hypoplastic aorta and hypertrophy of left ventricle.' His body was buried in the first zone, 11th row, of the city's Protestant Cemetery. A friend, John Goodwin, told Christopher Isherwood that Fouts was found dead in his bathroom."
Cecil Beaton
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Mirror and ornaments at Ashcombe |
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Cecil Beaton with Mickey the cat at Reddish house ©The Cecil Beaton Studio Archive at Sotheby’s |
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Cecil Beaton with his pug Simba at Reddish House |
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Cecil Beaton with his pug in the Winter Garden, Reddish House 1961 |
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Cecil Beaton’s Circus Bed, originally designed by Rex Whistler, recreated by Beaudesert Ltd ©Beaudesert |
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Cecil Beaton wearing The Rabbit Coat covered with broken eggs and the trousers with bees. |
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Cecil Beaton in reddish drawing room 1951 |
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Cecil Beaton by Gordon Anthony, 1935 © National Portrait Gallery, London |
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Bronze bust of Cecil beaton by Frank Dobson in front of the pearl buttoned curtains recreated by Beaudesert |
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Beaton on the original sofa at Reddish. Spot the original chintz on the curtains, source unknown |
Cecil Beaton
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Mirror and ornaments at Ashcombe |
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Cecil Beaton with Mickey the cat at Reddish house ©The Cecil Beaton Studio Archive at Sotheby’s |
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Cecil Beaton with his pug Simba at Reddish House |
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Cecil Beaton with his pug in the Winter Garden, Reddish House 1961 |
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Cecil Beaton’s Circus Bed, originally designed by Rex Whistler, recreated by Beaudesert Ltd ©Beaudesert |
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Cecil Beaton wearing The Rabbit Coat covered with broken eggs and the trousers with bees. |
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Cecil Beaton in reddish drawing room 1951 |
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Cecil Beaton by Gordon Anthony, 1935 © National Portrait Gallery, London |
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Bronze bust of Cecil beaton by Frank Dobson in front of the pearl buttoned curtains recreated by Beaudesert |
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Beaton on the original sofa at Reddish. Spot the original chintz on the curtains, source unknown |
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